If this is the #1 quality MBA programs want, how are you showing it?


What do MBA Admissions Committees really want?

Ask a group of MBA AdComs to name the number one quality they look for in candidates, and one word will rise to the top:

Self-awareness.

It’s no coincidence that the entire MBA application process is designed to test this very quality.

After all, how else would you answer essays like the HBS one asking, "What experiences have shaped who you are, how you invest in others, and what kind of leader you want to become?"

But this leads to an important question…

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What does self-awareness really mean?

Self-awareness is more than just knowing your strengths and weaknesses.

It’s about understanding who you are and how you’re perceived by others.

It’s being in tune with your role in team successes, your contributions to your workplace, and how your values drive your actions - in both life and leadership.

But here’s the catch...

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The surprising self-awareness gap

Harvard Business School research found something eye-opening: while 95% of people think they’re self-aware, only about 10-15% actually are. That’s a pretty wide gap, isn’t it?

No wonder in another study, 99% of respondents reported working with at least one annoying, un-self-aware colleague. Sound familiar?

So, how do you make sure you’re part of that top 10-15% - the truly self-aware? Especially when you know that MBA programs are watching closely?

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How can YOU show the self-awareness MBA programs look for?

It starts with frequent self-reflection. You have to take time to evaluate your actions, decisions, and the outcomes they create.

This doesn’t mean endlessly questioning yourself but rather taking a moment to pause and process.

Journaling is one powerful tool for this - it helps identify patterns in your behavior and emotions.

But reflection alone isn’t enough. You also need perspective.

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From brainstorming to breakthroughs: A Round 1 candidate’s MBA essays approach

With Round 1 wrapping up, I had the pleasure of interviewing one of my MBA ABC participants about his essay writing journey.

He opens up about the entire process - from the early stages of brainstorming to finalizing his essays - offering candid insights into the challenges, the pivotal role self-reflection played in shaping his strategy, and the value of being willing to start fresh when a story didn’t quite hit the mark.

Curious about how he overcame the MBA essay writing challenges and refined his essays?

​Dive into the full interview for all the insights.​

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Onwards and upwards,

Petia

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